Happy 70th Kusum Thakur

I have written about ATKT, pani puri, marathons and bad decisions taken with great confidence. But not enough about my mother. My report cards said: Can do better. There was potential. Evidence was limited. I got into BCS, got an ATKT, and later rebranded it as: Allow To Keep Trying. My mother may not have… Continue reading Happy 70th Kusum Thakur

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Fifty Is Not the New Thirty—and may be Vanaprastha.

I understood Brahmacharya because my parents drew the boundaries. I entered Grihastha almost on autopilot. Now, at fifty, I am trying to understand Vanaprastha—but everyone around me appears determined to become thirty again. There was a time when life came with reasonably clear instructions. Study. Find work. Get married. Build a home. Raise a family.… Continue reading Fifty Is Not the New Thirty—and may be Vanaprastha.

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Blending!

It’s not the same anymore,not the petrol,not the rumour.Somewhere between clean fueland clean speech,we lost the old humour. Petrol is blended,humour is blunted.Both come with a warning stunted:“Nazaar Hati, Durghatna Ghati.”Laugh too freely,and you may be hunted. We are 70s kids,from the age of leaded petrol,unfiltered jokes,and neighbours who could laugh first,and judge later,after two… Continue reading Blending!

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Anthropology of Reels-From “College Ki Ladki” to Content Creators

My first introduction to reels was not Instagram. It was not cinema theory.It was not anthropology.It was not some TED Talk on the attention economy. It was a cassette. And most probably, the song was either “College Ki Ladki” or “Jumma Chumma De De.” There was a time when listening to a favourite song required commitment. You did… Continue reading Anthropology of Reels-From “College Ki Ladki” to Content Creators

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MY OG Investment: City Bus Tickets

Prologue: Part 1 Before crypto, before mutual funds, before people started saying “asset allocation” on YouTube, we had our own investment class in S-Type, Adityapur. The “City bus tickets”. Small, rectangular, coloured paper. Worth almost nothing to adults. Worth everything to us. A grown-up would finish the bus ride, crush the ticket, and throw it… Continue reading MY OG Investment: City Bus Tickets

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ATKT: Allow To Keep Trying

Recap: Chapter 1 , Part 1 Chapter 1, Part 2: ATKT When I finally reached Pune, I was not a student. I was not even close to being a student, with just passing marks in all subjects. I was a 19-year-old boy from Jamshedpur carrying a suitcase, a mark sheet, a ₹5,000 banker’s cheque, and… Continue reading ATKT: Allow To Keep Trying

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The Gel Index: A Runner’s Currency Depreciation Report

When I started running in 2014, I thought running was a low-cost sport. Shoes, shorts, T-shirt, road.Simple. Then I discovered gels. In 2016, I started using GU. Later came Fast&Up and Unived, which gave Indian runners some local relief. Then around 2022, I discovered Maurten, and suddenly my marathon nutrition plan started looking like an… Continue reading The Gel Index: A Runner’s Currency Depreciation Report